you meet a new lover on a dating site, and he wants to migrate to you, so you send him the airfare and spending money, which gets stolen, however he has an expensive raw diamond that the brings with him but, unfortunately gets arrested in Amsterdam for carrying the diamond and then held captive for ransom for the new lover to pay to a jewel firm in London. He is chained up in Schiphol and allowed to make contact with me regularly to make sure I pay the ransom for his release. This is a true story that involved the author.